My Story
I know what it’s like to be the kind of person who wins.
The kind of person who sets a goal and hits it.
Who doesn’t wait for motivation.
Who builds a life through intention, discipline, and drive.
I also know what it’s like to wake up inside that life… and realize something is missing.
Not from the outside looking in.
On the inside.
Because even when you check every box, there is a quiet moment.
“Is this it?”
I had the life I once dreamed about—married to the love of my life, building a successful business, traveling, growing, creating. And then we finally became parents to triplets—three beautiful, healthy baby girls.
And still… I felt disconnected.
Not from them.
From me.
The moment I knew I couldn’t ignore it anymore
I remember being in Bogotá, Colombia. The girls were around 15 months old.
It was nap time.
I was in a small, dark room trying to put three crying babies to sleep—alone, exhausted, doing what mothers do: giving everything.
When they finally fell asleep, I opened my laptop and typed
“How do you overcome limitations?”
But what I was really asking was:
Where did that powerful woman I used to know go?
Because what I was really asking was:
Where did that powerful woman I used to know go?
I had everything I wanted… but inside, I felt empty.
Like I had achieved a version of success that looked right… but didn’t feel like mine anymore.
That moment wasn’t a breakdown.
It was a wake-up call.
The truth high performers don’t want to face
We’re taught happiness is on the other side of the next milestone.
But milestones don’t create peace.
The only prove you can achieve.
But the truth is:
No amount of money, accolades, accomplishments, or “checked boxes” will ever give you peace.
Not real peace.
Not deep freedom.
Not the kind that lets you breathe again.
I learned firsthand that success on the outside does not automatically create wholeness on the inside.
Because true happiness isn’t a result.
It’s a relationship with yourself.
And for most successful leaders, that relationship gets sacrificed along the way.
The moment everything changed
A few months later, Edward and I were at a business program deciding what to invest in next to move us forward.
He suggested something I wasn’t expecting:
A coach.
I ended up talking to a woman who told me she was coached by Steve Hardison.
I had heard his name in the room, but I didn’t know what that meant yet.
So I asked her something that surprised even me:
“Do you cry?”
I know… it’s a strange question.
But I could feel it.
Something was rising.
Something I had buried beneath performance, excellence, productivity, and being “the strong one.”
She looked at me and said:
“Yes. All the time.”
And I said:
“Okay… but is he any good?”
She replied:
“He’s better than good. He’s a mind surgeon.”
And I felt it instantly.
In that moment, everything aligned.
I knew: this is what I’ve been looking for.
In that moment, I became committed to me.
The $150,000 decision
Then I asked the question every entrepreneur asks:
“How much is it?”
She said:
“$150.”
And I said:
“$150… what?”
Because I had no context.
An hour? A session? A month?
And she said:
“$150,000 a year.”
My first thought wasn’t even about money.
My first thought was:
How am I going to tell my husband I’m doing this?
When I told Edward, he said:
“You can buy a house for that!”
And back then… you could.
We didn’t have $150,000 sitting around.
Especially $150,000 labeled for “coaching.”
But on the way home from that program, I looked at him and I said something I didn’t even fully understand yet— but I knew it was true:
“This will change the trajectory of our lives.
And it will alter the trajectory of our daughters’ lives.”
That was my second commitment.
The first commitment was to my growth.
The second commitment was to the legacy I was creating as a woman, a wife, a leader, and a mother.
This is what I discovered
What I got from coaching wasn’t “positivity.”
It wasn’t motivation.
It wasn’t quick fixes or techniques.
It changed how I saw myself and my life.
It was the process of peeling away everything I collected on the journey of life—every belief, every pressure, every identity I thought I had to wear to be worthy.
And returning to my essence.
My truth.
My power.
I learned that freedom isn’t something you earn once your business works.
Freedom is who you are being while you build it.
And if your inner world isn’t aligned… the business can succeed and you can have everything you once dreamed of and you’ll still won’t feel free.
I also learned this:
What got you here won’t get you to where you truly want to go.
Because the “next level” isn’t a strategy.
It’s a shift in BEing.
Why I do what I do
You can build a seven-figure business and still feel like you can’t breathe. Today, I work with high-performing entrepreneurs and leaders who have created a successful life…but want it to feel like theirs again.
People who are admired. Capable. Respected. Driven.
And still feel the tension underneath:
“I’m winning… but I’m tired.”
“I have everything… but I don’t feel fulfilled.”
“I built this for freedom… why do I feel trapped inside it?”
“I am producing results, but not living my life.”
I’m committed to helping you reconnect to who you truly are—and lead from that place.
Because when you shift who you’re being…Everything changes.
Not just your results.
Your life.
That’s why this work isn’t optional.
It’s foundational.